alright. a random post for now. from someone's blog. not very free nowadays. anw, jsut went tanning with lyn, xinyi, joceline, abd cheryl, more details when im free.
Women Who Smoke and Swear
I dont know if you will call this bias or what. When we see a man smoke. A lot of us will take it as ..... yah he is a smoker.When we see a woman smoke. A lot of us will think she is Ah Lian, or that she must be damn bad. Si Za Bo Kia !When we hear a man swear by his words. A lot of us will take it as he is rude, fowl mouth.When we hear a woman swear. A lot of us will have a totally different opinion of her no matter how pretty she is. Bo Lang Ai !I guess the world is fair this way. Come to think of it. A lot of things woman can do, but man cant, for the longest time, we have been biasedly commented too. Its fair I guess.The society has brought every single one of us up to accept a certain norm behaviour for each gender.Some girls think they are cool, swearing. All over, especially in their blogs (this is going down for many generations to come if they dont know). I dont think this is cool.A cool girl states her points, stands by her principles, respects her own value, gender and sexuality, chooses gracefullness over rudeness.The world may have changed a great deal ..... something I feel should stay as it is.